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Tom Holland and Zendaya’s romantic relationship is no secret but is surely a private one. So, when they’re seen together in public sharing their intimate moments, fans can’t help but gush over their relationship. The celebrity couple is reportedly engaged, as she was seen rocking what seems to be an engagement ring at the 2025 Golden Globes.
Here are some notable bits throughout their romantic timeline:
2016
Spider-Man: Homecoming, Marvel’s reboot of the Spider-Man franchise, began filming and was shown in cinemas in July 2017. Tom Holland was cast as Peter Parker alongside Zendaya as MJ. They met and eventually started a beautiful friendship on the set of this movie. During the height of their promotions for the film, fans were easy to speculate that the two were already dating but Tom and Zendaya denied the dating rumors.
September 2017
Tom dedicated an Instagram post to Zendaya to greet her on her birthday. His post came with a funny caption: "Thinking about how to get taller 😂 Happy birthday mate. Miss you and I'll have a drink for you. #21stbirthday." Tom has since made it a tradition to post a birthday greeting for his "mate" on social media.
May 2018
Tom posted a photo of Zendaya, wearing a silver armor Versace outfit, at the Met Gala. He wrote, "All hail the queen. Killing it mate 🙌🏻" He's posted more solo photos of Zendaya on his Instagram feed since, and it's giving proud boyfriend vibes.
September 2018
Tom once again showed some love for Zendaya on her birthday, sharing a cute paparazzi-style snap of the two of them. Around this time, they also started filming for the movie Spider-Man: Far From Home, and Tom eagerly shared a photo on the set in Venice with Zendaya and their co-star Jacob Batalon.
October 2018
He also posted that they had wrapped up filming, capturing his excitement with a photo of him dressed as Spider-Man beside his leading lady.
June 2019
Spider-Man: Far From Home was released, and that meant more time together for Tom and Zendaya as they did promotions for the movie.
2019 to 2020
Zendaya was reportedly dating her Euphoria co-star Jacob Elordi. But in 2021, paparazzi captured photos of Tom and Zendaya kissing inside a car. After all those rumors and photos, the two remained silent on the real status of their relationship.
August 2021
They were seen attending a wedding together where they seemed to be each other’s dates.
September 2021
They made their relationship “IG-official” when Tom shared a sweet photo of them together with a caption, “My MJ, have the happiest of birthdays. Gimme a call when your up xxx.” From "mate" to "my MJ!"
Later that year, Tom and Zendaya separately shared their frustration with people invading their privacy—taking pictures of their intimate and private moments. In their respective interviews, they said that their story should be told by them together. Tom said, “It’s not a conversation that I can have without her, you know, I respect her too much to say … This isn’t my story. It’s our story. And we’ll talk about what it is when we’re ready to talk about it together.” It was also in 2021 when they made headlines for their red-carpet appearances together, in line with the promotions of their movie Spider-Man: No Way Home.
December 2021
Zendaya referred to Tom as "my Spider-Man" in an Instagram post, adding, "I’m so proud of you, some things never change and good thing."
June 2022
Zendaya posted a birthday greeting for Tom on Instagram, professing her love for him by writing, "Happiest of birthdays to the one who makes me the happiest <3"
August 2022
Tom made a romantic gesture by flying all the way from New York to Budapest to visit and hang out with Zendaya, who was filming Dune: Part Two. Later that year, they celebrated Zendaya’s birthday together. Then there were engagement rumors which were immediately debunked by Zendaya’s mother, Claire Stoermer.
March 2023
Tom and Zendaya were spotted in a sweet moment while doing a grocery run where they were seen holding each other’s hands and having fun. In that same month, they were seen wearing each other’s initials. Zendaya wore a signet ring with the initials “TH” believed to stand for Tom Holland while Tom was seen wearing pants with the initial “Z” on the pockets that was also said to mean “Zendaya.”
June 2023
2023 was a good year for their fans as Tom and Zendaya were continuously spotted sharing sweet rare moments, enjoying date nights and travels together. In June of that year, in an interview, Tom talked about being happy and in love. “I’m locked up, so I’m happy and in love. So I’ve got no need for rizz,” he shared.
September 2023
Zendaya shared how she likes her romantic life to be private. She explained, “I can’t not be a person and live my life and love the person I love. But also, I do have control over what I choose to share. It’s about protecting the peace and letting things be your own but also not being afraid to exist. You can’t hide. That’s not fun, either. I am navigating it more than ever now.”
January 2024
The two continued to share rare moments of their private relationship. Tom shared a tribute to Zendaya’s Paris Fashion Week look in his Instagram story.

February 2024
They attended the Dune: Part Two after-party and were spotted holding hands during the event.
March 2024
The two were spotted on a tennis date at the Indian Wells Open in California.
April 2024
Zendaya openly shared how proud she is of her boyfriend, Tom, in his appearance in the classic Romeo and Juliet. Tom, on the other hand, returned the favor as he was also seen proudly capturing Zendaya’s moment as the latter was introduced in the theater during the premiere of the film Challengers.
May 2024
Tom continued to admire his girlfriend’s fashion looks from the Paris Fashion Week to the Gala look.
November 2024
A photo of Zendaya, which appeared to be taken on their date night, was shared by Tom on his Instagram account.

And this year, just after all the New Year’s fireworks, happy news broke the internet as the two were reportedly engaged. Zendaya proudly wears her diamond ring on the red carpet of the 2025 Golden Globes. According to an insider, “Zendaya tried to keep it a secret but was very excited to show off her ring. She didn’t think people would notice but didn’t care either way.”
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